no matter how excited you are about your pregnancy, it’s a v stressful time in your life.

you know what the most annoying thing about pregnancy is?? a lot of assholes around you will be calling you fat and saying shit like that even if someone like me has lost weight in say my ass/upper thighs and gained all of the weight in the belly/uterus area.

it’s like, ok i agree, i’m carrying a fucking watermelon but what about you? you carrying a fucking keg, asshole?

I'm applauding at you for your pregnancy post because you wrote the truth

lol, ilu. it’s just so annoying though?? i hear people referring to aman and i as being pregnant or like ppl talking to him being like “you’re pregnant?!?” and it’s like NAH I AM, HE ISN’T. but idk society as a whole refuses to acknowledge that usually only one partner in the relationship is pregnant (yo but can you imagine a polyamorous relationship that had multiple pregnant partners it’d be like a pregnancy pact omg, kinda cool??).

that the pregnant partner in that relationship undergoes not only physical changes but a lot of emotional and mental changes as well. that despite the other non-pregnant partner taking credit of something they have just half the conception of, they should remain strictly as pillars of support. that any fluctuations in the moods of people around them can and will seriously affect the emotions of the pregnant person and it’s downright aggravating when other people downplay the turmoil one goes through when being pregnant.

it’s just so nerve wrecking. there’s so much that goes on in a pregnancy and people still expect you to do this and this no matter how stressful because they think it’s “teamwork” when no it isn’t. this kid is gonna come out of my body, not aman’s. it’s not like i’m carrying them for the first 50 yards and he does it for the rest. nor is it like he’ll be the one with the chance of having postpartum depression. or worry that his breast milk won’t contain the proper nutrients the baby will need. that’s all on me. pregnancy is 100% on the pregnant person and other people are along for the ride (or not, like absent fathers, whatever) and can help with support and ease some of the pressures but there’s honestly too much for someone to just ease any of the risks or worries completely. but it is nice to have someone there with you to help ease them.

and i guess other than the one time aman used “we are pregnant”, i’m thankful he’s never said it again. because he’s not pregnant, we are expecting but he’s not pregnant and it’s fucked up to claim he is when i’m the only one undergoing a lot of body changes, and carrying a life form and must be extra careful with whatever i intake, from medicine to food because this can drastically affect the child.

but at the same time, it pisses me off because he goes around smoking and tries to smoke in the car when ‘m in there despite knowing i still have allergies with it and it’s not good for the kid. and it also pisses me off that he drinks and tries to kiss me. no get your gross alcoholic lips away from me. i get it, you’re not pregnant but i am so kindly fuck off.

but the nerve of some assholes to shit on a pregnant woman who is simply stating that your cis male ass fucking ain’t pregnant so stop using that damn group term when you’re only involved in conception. that’s it. even if you wait hand and foot on your wife/gf/husband/bf/pregnant person you’re still not pregnant.

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Mila Kunis Against Men Saying “We Are Pregnant” - Video

What the fuck is this bullshit and why was it recommended for me?

It’s not like men are involved in the creation of the baby or anything.

I mean shit, I understand that pregnancy is an extremely strenuous thing on the woman, but that doesn’t mean that a dude can’t be proud of the fact that he’s going to be a father.

Hmm. Weird how someone would want to be considered a part of the pregnancy…
There goes all of my respect for Mila Kunis.

My goodness, women like this have some fucking nerve. Good luck Ashton.

Please stop.

Pregnancy is a very dangerous time for cis-women. Until cis-men are capable of nine months of pain without the ability to take painkillers, followed by hours of one of the most painful experiences a human can undergo, I agree with Mila Kunis. It is your child. Not your pregnancy. You don’t get a fucking medal for sticking your dick inside someone and impregnating them, you get a child. So no, you don’t need a fucking spotlight highlighting your months of work and pain and the fact that you can potentially die trying to bring life into the world when you have not undergone any of the physical effort.

Things you can expect during pregnancy: Anemia, urinary tract infections, constipation, mental health conditions including intense depression, hyperemesis gravidarm (basically when persistent vomiting is more than just morning sickness and requires hospitalization). Not to mention there are dozens of infections that can cause serious problems. (x) (x)

Oh and the fact that 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriages which obviously requires hospitalization for the pregnant woman and causes a lot of emotional trauma.

Or that you can’t consume alcohol, most types of fish, you can’t expose yourself to hot water (or any heat, really), or get an x-ray. You cannot eat lunch meats, raw sprouts (radishes, alfalfa, etc.), soft cheeses, anything unpasteurized is out, as are foods with raw or undercooked eggs. And caffeine can lead to miscarriages, so say goodbye to coffee, teas, and chocolate. (x) (x) (x)

About 2 million pregnancy losses occur annually in the U.S.; 6 million babies are born. 25% of pregnancies are lost.

14.5% of pregnant women will experience at least one pregnancy complication.

11% of women are diagnosed with post partum depression.

(x)

800 women die because of pregnancy-related problems in the U.S. annually. (x)

Labor can last for 36 hours or more. You’re in a room full of strangers, who are all seeing your vagina, your blood, your shit, your piss, and your agony. It’s common for tearing to occur during the delivery (x) and after the baby is born you still have to deliver the placenta (essentially an organ).

Pregnancy is terrifying, dangerous, and uncomfortable. None of you have the right to shit on Mila Kunis for telling the truth: You do not deserve the spotlight of your wife’s pregnancy. So get over yourselves. Yes, the father CAN be proud, and he should be. But it’s not his pregnancy. He is not the one who will endure it.

It is not weird that someone would want to be involved in their wife’s pregnancy. It is weird that you have the fucking nerve to lose respect for someone reminding you that the father is not the pregnant one in the picture.

So please, stop.

Today in male entitlement: now women ”have some nerve” if they remind men that they are not, in fact, the pregnant ones. 

As a married pregnant woman, I can assure you that there’s nothing my husband has gone through that I am going through. He didn’t have to deal with the morning sickness (which was more like all day sickness and to hell with the asshole that give it that name) that I did, he didn’t lose his appetite simply by smelling some of his favorite dishes that now smell foul. He doesn’t go through what I do but he feels entitled like every whiney bitch commenting early on in this particular thread, to claim that the pressures of pregnancy are getting to him when they’re fucking not. I can’t sleep sometimes because this little nerd in my belly punches my bladder or kicks my kidneys because it’s beginning to get cramped now that they’ve hit 32 weeks.

A cis man will not endure the hardships pregnant people undergo. It’s our pregnancy, he’s just along for the ride and he’s allowed to be proud of it but when my husband drinks 3 beers a night before going to sleep, that’s a fucking reminder that he’s not the pregnant one. He doesn’t need to see his doctor biweekly, he doesn’t need to worry about peeing into a cup every visit. He doesn’t need to worry that he didn’t gain enough weight since the last visit and that something might be wrong. He doesn’t need to worry that he might have forgotten to take his prenatal vitamins yesterday and feel guilty about it because it cost a week’s worth of pay. He doesn’t need to worry that “pregnancy brain” hit him and now he’s without whatever it was that he was meant to bring with him on whatever day. 

A cis man isn’t pregnant, so it’s not his fucking pregnancy to feel entitled to claim it as but not deal with one or ten of the hardships. Yes, every pregnancy is different but a cis man isn’t the one getting pregnant, so he can shut the fuck up about “we” being pregnant. There is no “we” in pregnancy unless both partners in a relationship are actually pregnant. Even if he is a pillar of support during this pregnancy, he’s only along for the ride. This baby and I are the ones undergoing a very long and stressful journey. 

There’s a huge difference in being proud that you’re expecting and actually being pregnant as Mila has stated in the gifs above. By the way, any piece of shit feels entitled enough to piss on Mila Kunis for stating the truth can kindly fuck off this Earth before they reproduce because you do not have any right to create offspring when you’re an ignorant fucker.

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Ya know something interesting about the Marvel/DC ‘rivalry’ on tumblr?

Everyone acts like DC is this super regressive company compared to Marvel when DC really did more progressive stuff first and is still doing so.

Women as heroes?
DC’s had Wonder Woman as one of their three major heroes forever, but everyone ignores that because “But she doesn’t have a movie yet” (more on that later)

While Marvel can claim the first black hero in comics with Black Panther, DC actually had heroes talking explicitly about race with John Stewart and Hal Jordan, and did a lot of issues with progressiveism and liberalism vs convsativism in the Green Arrow/Green Lantern series (including a black person calling out Hal on how little he did to fight oppression on earth as he did the rest of the universe), and Green Arrow and Hawkeye arguing politics was a common thread of their time on the JLA together.

Black Lightning was the first African-American superhero with no criminal record (Luke Cage did get his powers in prison, it’s kinda stereotypical)

DC itself actually funded and published Milestone comics, a comics company entirely devoted to more diverse comics. If you’ve ever heard of Static you owe DC comics.

Marvel has never had anything even remotely equivalent.

When it comes to LGBT stuff, DC comics had a lesbian Batwoman and a lesbian woman taking over from a male hero in The Question.
While not a hero explicitly DC has a transwoman supporting character in Batgirl. (And I’m not even counting the trans characters in Vertigo books.)
It has Alan Scott being gay inthe Nu52 continuity, 
I know Grace Choi was bisexual pre-reboot (I don’t know the current status)
Had a gay black teen hero in the Superboy & the Ravers comic in the 90s, as well as the character of Obsidian who was a major supporting character in the JSA.

The idea of characters of color or a different gender taking the place of legacy characters is nothing new for DC.
Like I mentioned, a lesbian Latin@ became the Question, there was an asian woman hero Doctor Light, a black woman Doctor Midnight, a Latina became the new Wildcat.

Now I mentioned I’d get back to movies later on and, let’s look at DC & Marvels movies in terms of ethnicity here, most notably the recent casting rumors.

Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson basically said he’d be playing Shazam.
Shazam, a previously white hero, played by a Black & Samoan man.

Aquaman, if rumors are to be believed, will be played by Jason Momoa.
Aquaman, a white blonde haired, blue eyed hero, played by a Samoan man.

Meanwhile over at Marvel….Well Falcon and Rhodey get to exist, but they’re up to this point still just little more than sidekicks to the white heroes in the movies.
Marvel makes a movie about a superhero team and goes “Yeah, everyone is still white as they were in the 1960s.” 
DC looks at their superhero team and says “We need to make the team more diverse, even if it means changing the race of the heroes” and people act like they’re some super regressive company.


I’m fine with folks preferring one company over the other.
I’m fine with folks being excited Marvel is having legacy characters change race and/or gender with who gets to pick up the legacy.

But as a lifelong comic fan it’s kinda annoying to see people praising Marvel as super progressive for doing shit DC did in the 80s and still does to this day.

Especially when with Marvel it’s coming across far more as a blatant publicity grabs.

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hollywood sure has an easy time finding brown and black people to play terrorists, thugs, drug dealers, gangsters, servants, “barbarians”, hypersexualized or desexualized caricatures but all of a sudden you need a lead role and

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gosh where did they go i swear we put them here right after zero dark thirty??

Can’t even find them to play black and brown people in movies ABOUT black and brown people.

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